Yess I’m right there with you. I don’t think Jaime will ever get over Cersei. No matter how hard he tries to forget her or how angry he is at her or how much he wants to show the world he doesn’t care about her, it’s still Cersei he wants most, it’s Cersei who’s on his mind, it’s Cersei he longs for. She’s part of him wherever he goes and I don’t think that will ever change.
Which is why i find it so hard to ship Jaime with anyone else than Cersei, cause get Jaime and you’ll get Cersei for free, like a love triangle in which Cersei wins every time, cause nothing will ever compare to what he feels for her. He will always mourn what could’ve been, cause it’s still what he wants most.